Gratitude Day 141 - Pot or Pan?

Dear Friends,
Moving along the path of forgiveness and forgetfulness, I never liked sceptics, until I became one myself! 
It has been said that you are not over a breakup unless you are ready to be trusting and vulnerable again! Although it seemed like a tall order, I gave it a try. While back in December, I threw - carelessly I might add - my last "hope chip" on a romance roulette table in Cuba and lost. 


Yes, my name is Lili, and I am gratefully bitter!


There is a revealing saying in Farsi; die for someone who is at least willing to run a fever for you! Since in my case, results were never worth the effort, I finally lost my innocence and developed a healthy scepticism! It comes in handy when men hit on me (surprisingly, it still happens!) or friends try to set me up. There sure is safety in invulnerability! 
Furthermore, not everybody is a pot, in need of a lid! I just might be a frying pan! 
Have a carefree day everyone!